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💌 25 valentine’s day asks

  • first date: describe your ideal first date.
  • first kiss: what’s the best way to be kissed?
  • preference: sexuality? what’s your ‘type’?
  • blush: what could someone do this valentine’s to make you feel special?
  • hand holding: do you like pda?
  • family: how important is your family’s approval of your s.o.?
  • doves: what’s the most romantic thing someone’s done for you?
  • love hearts: where were you when you met your crush?
  • candy: favourite thing to eat on a date?
  • 100th date: would you prefer to stay in or go out this valentine’s?
  • roses: do you like picnic dates?
  • giggle: what’s more important in an s.o.: intelligence or humour?
  • lace: who looks best in your favourite colour?
  • cupid: have you ever been set up? have you ever set anyone else up? how did it go?
  • lovebirds: at what point in a relationship would you make it ‘public’?
  • love knots: would you like to forget the person you shared your first kiss with?
  • promise ring: who do you see yourself being with in two years?
  • ballad: best love song?
  • aphrodite: how important are looks?
  • angel: do you like ‘bad boys’ or sweethearts more?
  • harp: have you ever written a poem for a crush?
  • red: where will you be spending february 14th?
  • love notes: who was your last valentine? where are they now?
  • flowers: what’s the best romantic gift to give someone?
  • st. valentine: what are your hopes for love this year?

you ever know someone and you think “god i love you. i wish we could’ve known eachother when we were carefree and 11. i wish we could’ve played together as kids”

I know you play like you’re the meanest and the hardest but actually you’re the most scared of all. I know you steal batteries you don’t need, and you push away anyone who’s willing to put up with you because just a little bit of love reminds you how big and empty that hole inside you actually is.

The first f-bomb in the MCU should have gone to Rocket:

“The names Rocket….Rocket F*CKING Raccoon!”

I’m rewatching Guardians of the Galaxy and Rocket’s “everybody’s got dead people” sure does hit differently in the wake of volume 3 😭😭😭

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Do you- do you think he counted the lab as one of those??

Thinkin about Rocket and all the raccoon pups he rescued, and how those babies are untouched and not experimented on, so they’ll all just grow up to be normal raccoons

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Family photo

Like they can’t talk or anything so this kinda thing happens a lot

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do me a solid and just reblog this saying what time it is where you are and what you’re thinking about in the tags.

The homoflexible flag is so ugly omg-

Signs you might be autistic (according to tiktok)

  • You prefer small spoons to large spoons
  • You act differently between different groups of people
  • You get tired
  • You don’t like loud noises
  • You have trouble making friends
  • You fidget
  • You have strong opinions
  • You overthink things
  • You twirl your hair
  • You’re told that you’re a good listener
  • You’re misunderstood
  • You do drugs

These are not exclusive to autism! None of these indicate autism specifically and most of these don’t even indicate ANY kind of disability/disorder.

Yes some of these things are associated with being autistic. Analogy: It’s usually really hot in the Dominican Republic. But, if it is hot outside, I’m not going to take it as a sign that I’m in the Dominican Republic. Similarly, if there is something that’s vaguely associated with autism, I’m not going to assume that it’s autism.

And again, many of these things are just NORMAL HUMAN BEHAVIOR. Every person is gonna hate it when something really loud is going on in a context that is strange. You can be allistic and have strong opinions, or get misunderstood frequently, or be a listener.

Just because a lot of autistic people have an experience does not mean that that experience is a sign of autism.

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Oh, don't forget the TikTok diagnosis that you're autistic if you tuck your hand under your chin when you sleep.

Mind boggling.

But yea. Autism is not a bunch of quirky traits. We have some quirky traits because we're human and coping with our autism, yes. But none of the above means anything.

Kinda tired of the posts being made, because TikTok videos like that are not diagnostic criteria, but the videos that have given me resources are.

NONE of those types of videos made me consider the self diagnosis.

Please be mindful of people that have done their research past TikTok, because TikTok is what made me look into it and those VIDEOS are on people’s FYP due to their interaction of them. Therefore, they don’t show up on my page and people choose to allow it on theirs.

I have yet to see anyone taking those videos seriously and it may be because I don’t interact with folks that do.

This is just my two cents, because it’s starting to feel as if my self diagnosis, being associated with TikTok, is not being taken seriously.

I want to address the above because it is very important.

Bucky, your self-diagnosis is 1000% valid.

The above is addressing the ridiculous side of TikTok, obviously. And, honestly, I have never met a self-diagnosed autistic who thinks they're autistic only because they have trouble making friends.

I take you very seriously.

I feel like the main problem is the fact those videos are meant to be short so they don't provide the proper context for things I.e: why autistic people struggle to make friends or why a lot of us struggle with addiction/excessive substance use.

Yes! That's very true. Hot damn, none of this is simple. If a TikTok makes you go "hmmmm" then research, as an actual autistic person etc.

i need to yassify one of my friends

i wanna yassify him

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